Sobriety For Dummies
For Dummies (Verlag)
978-1-394-25416-3 (ISBN)
From leading recovery mentors Lane Kennedy and Tamar Medford, this book is full of proven ideas that will help you embrace a life without alcohol (or without so much of it). Chock full of personal stories, unfiltered honesty, and tried-and-true advice, Sobriety For Dummies offers practical strategies and useful tools for those seeking to transform the role of alcohol in their lives. You'll get an insider look at how you can thrive without drinking in every area of life—relationships, friendship, parenting, professional life, and beyond. Whatever your ultimate drinking goal might be, this book provides the support you need to commit to that goal and create positive and healthy choices. Take control of your life, with the help of this friendly Dummies guide.
Understand what triggers drinking and the effects it has on your body and mind
Have fun in any social situation, without using alcohol as a crutch
Gain the inspiration you need to accomplish your goals and improve your life
Get tips and tools for cutting back on drinking or cutting out alcohol all together
Gain access to how to live in recovery for the long haul
For those who are sober curious, trying to stay sober, or looking to stop drinking alcohol altogether, Sobriety For Dummies is here to help.
Lane Kennedy has lived in long-term recovery for decades, using mindfulness, DNA, spirituality, and nutrition for total being wellness. Lane blends scientific insights with clear, relatable language to offer practical, life-changing guidance for long-term recovery. Tamar Medford is a guide in self-discovery, a certified neuro change master practitioner, podcast producer and host, and an author. With over a decade of experience in recovery and sobriety, she helps people uncover insights they may not see on their own.
Introduction 1
About This Book 2
Conventions Used in This Book 3
Foolish Assumptions 3
How This Book Is Organized 3
Part I: From Chaos to Clarity: Stepping Into Sobriety 4
Part II: Decoding the Elements of Addiction: Genetics, Environment, and Spiritual Dynamics 4
Part III: Living (and Loving) a Sober Lifestyle 4
Part IV: Overcoming Challenges and Thriving in Sobriety 5
Part V: The Road to Long-Term Sobriety 5
Part VI: The Part of Tens 5
Icons Used in This Book 5
Beyond the Book 6
Where to Go from Here 6
Part 1: From Chaos to Clarity: Stepping Into Sobriety 7
Chapter 1: The Basics of Sobriety 9
Understanding Sobriety and Alcoholism 10
What is alcoholism? 10
Growth of alcoholism and addiction 11
Heavy drinker versus alcoholic 13
Cross-addictions 14
Embracing Sobriety 17
Mindful lifestyle choices 17
Sobriety versus recovery 18
Where you can get help 19
Relapse and recovery 20
Continuous sobriety 21
Chapter 2: Deciding to Embark on the Sobriety Journey 23
Recognizing the Need for Change 24
Acknowledging the impact of substance use 26
Asking yourself how substance use has affected you 26
Walking through consequences 28
The Mindset for Sobriety 28
Creating and cultivating a growth mindset 29
Focusing on self-compassion and resilience —but never just one 30
Breaking Down Barriers to Sobriety 31
Identifying and addressing your triggers 31
Overcoming stigma 33
Chapter 3: Overcoming Emotional Challenges in Your Recovery 37
Understanding The Power of Your Emotions 38
Identifying personal downfalls 39
Exploring resentments 42
Mapping emotional responses 43
Charting emotions and responses in sobriety 44
Developing Coping Mechanisms 50
Building your toolbox of strategies 52
What does emotional regulation look like for you? 55
How to create effective communication in times of emotional turmoil 56
Building Emotional Resilience 56
Recognize and embrace your vulnerability as strength 57
Defining the significance of self-compassion in recovery 59
Identifying emotional sobriety and adaptability 60
Chapter 4: Developing Long-Term Sobriety 61
Building a Solid Support Network 62
Find a reliable support system 62
Peer Support: Who are you accountable to? 64
Nurturing healthy relationships 66
Mindful Lifestyle Choices 68
What is mindfulness, and how do I get it? 68
Integrating mindfulness into daily life 69
Balancing work and leisure in recovery 69
Drafting your sobriety blueprint 72
Maintenance Skills 75
Continuous self-reflection and growth 76
Creating a daily practice and personal progress 77
Setting and adjusting long-term goals 79
Part 2: Decoding the Elements of Addiction: Genetics, Environment, And Spiritual Dynamics 85
Chapter 5: Genetic Factors and Environmental Influences 87
Understanding Genetic Predispositions 88
Exploring family history and genetic influences 88
Your genes matter — genetic links to substance use disorders 90
Understanding addiction mechanisms 93
The role of genetic testing in long-term recovery 97
Impact of Environmental Factors 98
Investigating early childhood experiences 100
How my peers influence me 101
Stressors and coping mechanisms 103
Navigating Genetics and My Environment 104
Recognize the combined impact on substance use 106
Have a personalized approach to recovery 107
Chapter 6: The Spiritual Dimension of Recovery 109
Recognizing Spiritual Sickness 110
Recognizing spiritual sickness 111
Defining spirituality 113
The roots of spiritual sickness 114
Consequences of untreated spiritual malady 115
Cultivating Spiritual Wellness 119
Spiritual values as a power — 12 spiritual principles for long-term recovery 120
Embracing a Higher Power 123
Discovering your personal values collage 127
Practices that promote spiritual health 129
Part 3: Living (and Loving) a Sober Lifestyle 131
Chapter 7: Navigating Social Situations 133
Socializing in Sobriety: Strategies and Challenges 134
The mindful sobriety social quest 135
Developing social skills in recovery 137
Creating a social activity tracker 138
Addressing social anxiety and awkwardness 140
Choosing sober-friendly social settings 142
Creating a plan B activity tracker 142
Dealing with Peer Pressure and External Expectations 144
Assertiveness in saying “no” to substance use 144
Setting boundaries with friends and family 145
Educating others about your sobriety 147
Creating a Supportive Social Network 148
Fostering healthy friendships in sobriety 149
Engaging in sober social activities 150
Building a community of like-minded individuals 154
Chapter 8: Embracing Mental, Physical, and Emotional Well-Being 157
Nurturing Mental Wellness in Sobriety 158
Understanding the brain on sobriety 159
Mindfulness and meditation practices 160
Mindfulness 162
Coping with stress and anxiety 164
Seeking professional mental health support and medication 166
Holistic Approaches to Physical Health 173
Your physical health: the role of lab tests 174
Prioritizing regular exercise in sobriety 177
Nutritional practices for recovery 180
Reduce cravings 181
Other treatments to support your recovery 182
The role of sleep in physical well-being 185
Discovering Emotional Wellness 187
Emotional wellness exercise: Identifying and defining your emotions 188
Understanding emotional regulation 190
Creating your personalized wellness routine 192
Celebrate your progress 194
Chapter 9: Finding Your Purpose and Joy 195
Exploring Personal Passions and Interests 196
Identifying hobbies and activities that bring joy 198
Reconnecting with long-forgotten interests 201
Journaling your interests 201
Channeling creativity as a source of purpose 203
Enjoying Meaningful Connections and Relationships 204
Building meaningful relationships in sobriety 205
Contributing to the community and others 208
Balancing social connections for personal fulfillment 210
Setting and Pursuing Life Goals 211
Discover your Ikigai 211
Defining personal and professional aspirations 214
Creating realistic and achievable goals 215
Part 4: Overcoming Challenges and Thriving in Sobriety 219
Chapter 10: Handling Challenges and Relapse 221
Recognizing and Understanding Triggers (aka Sparks) 222
Mapping your spark points 223
Identifying personal emotions for relapse 224
Environmental and emotional triggers (sparks) 227
Transform your space, transform your recovery 228
Potential relapse rriggers (sparks) 228
Developing strategies to navigate triggers 230
Coping Mechanisms in Times of Difficulty 231
Mindfulness and stress reduction techniques 232
Effective communication during challenges 233
Learning and Growing from Relapse Experiences 233
Understanding the root causes of relapse 235
Developing a relapse prevention plan 238
Complacency in late recovery and the risk of relapse 240
Embracing resilience and personal growth after relapse 241
Chapter 11: Healing Together: The Path to Rebuilding Trust and Strengthening Family Ties 243
Rebuilding Trust and Communication 244
Addressing trust issues within the family 245
Effective communication strategies in recovery 245
Communication reflection 246
Family therapy and counseling 248
Education and Support for Family Members 248
Understanding addiction as a family disease 250
Providing resources and information for families 251
Family support groups and networks 252
Establishing Healthy Family Dynamics 253
Setting boundaries for a supportive environment 254
Encouraging openness and honesty in the family 255
Chapter 12: Building a Career and Gaining Employment 257
Crafting a Sober-Friendly Career Plan 258
Crafting a sober-friendly career plan questionnaire 259
Identifying career interests and passions 260
Aligning career goals with sobriety 262
Building a career plan with recovery in mind 263
Career development at each stage of sobriety 264
Navigating the Job Search and Interviews Sober 266
Effective job search strategies for individuals in recovery 267
Addressing employment gaps and recovery in interviews 268
Disclosing sobriety in the workplace 269
Thriving in the Workplace Sober 270
Enjoying happy hour and other work events 273
Utilizing workplace support systems 274
Career development and advancement in recovery 275
Moving forward: Integrating career and sobriety goals 276
Part 5: the Road to Long-term Sobriety 277
Chapter 13: Setting the Stage for Long-Term Sobriety 279
Establishing a Solid Foundation for Recovery 280
Building a supportive network 282
Developing healthy coping mechanisms 283
Creating a sober living environment 285
Harmonizing your space for neurobiology 286
Identifying warning signs 287
Crafting a Comprehensive Relapse Prevention Plan 291
Building your personal relapse prevention blueprint 292
Implementing strategies for high-risk situations 293
Fortifying against high-risk situations 294
Regularly reviewing and adjusting the plan 296
The Journey of Sustained and Continuous Sobriety 297
Chapter 14: Lifestyle Changes for Lasting Sobriety 299
Creating a Sober-Friendly Daily Routine 300
Sleep and sobriety 305
Incorporating healthy meals and snacks into daily life 306
Prioritizing regular physical activity in daily routine 309
Socializing and Networking in Sober Circles 310
Sober social events and activities 311
Building connections within recovery communities 312
Nurturing healthy friendships that support sobriety 314
Having Fun in Sobriety 316
Exploring hobbies and activities without substance use 318
Planning sober-friendly entertainment and events 319
Chapter 15: Developing Coping Mechanisms and Resilience (Mindfulness) 321
Introduction to Mindfulness Practices 322
Mindfulness versus mindlessness 323
Understanding the basics of mindfulness 325
Habit loops 326
The role of mindfulness in coping mechanisms 328
Benefits of incorporating mindfulness in recovery 330
Mindfulness Techniques for Coping with Stress 333
An intersection of two practices — mindfulness and stoicism 335
Mindful stoic relations 336
The stoic circle of influence in relationships 338
MBSR in long-term recovery 339
A step-by-step guide to practicing MBSR 341
Mindfulness Techniques 343
Mindful breathing and relaxation exercises 343
Mindful observation of thoughts and emotions 344
The stream of consciousness — mindful observation 345
Cultivating a mindful approach to challenges 347
Embracing the challenges mindfully 347
Mindfulness in the face of your personal sparks 349
Integrating mindfulness into daily life for long-term resilience 352
Part 6: the Part of Tens 355
Chapter 16: Ten Ways to Discover Your Sobriety
Purpose 357
Set Goals 358
Explore Passions 358
Connect with Others 358
Service to Others 359
Practice Vision Exercises 359
Seek Professional Guidance 360
Educate Yourself 360
Embrace Growth 360
Celebrate Wins 361
Navigate Social Situations and Awkwardness 361
Chapter 17: Ten Ways to Achieve Long-Term Sobriety 363
Find a Sense of Connection 363
Build a Strong Community 364
Get Professional Help/Support 365
Design Your Life of Sobriety 365
Develop Coping Skills 366
Keep Learning 367
Set goals for Long-Term Recovery 367
Change Your Lifestyle 368
Practice mindfulness and Meditation 369
Explore mental Health/Medication 369
Index 371
| Erscheinungsdatum | 21.09.2024 |
|---|---|
| Sprache | englisch |
| Maße | 147 x 224 mm |
| Gewicht | 408 g |
| Themenwelt | Sachbuch/Ratgeber ► Gesundheit / Leben / Psychologie ► Krankheiten / Heilverfahren |
| Sachbuch/Ratgeber ► Gesundheit / Leben / Psychologie ► Psychologie | |
| Geisteswissenschaften ► Psychologie ► Sucht / Drogen | |
| Medizin / Pharmazie ► Allgemeines / Lexika | |
| ISBN-10 | 1-394-25416-4 / 1394254164 |
| ISBN-13 | 978-1-394-25416-3 / 9781394254163 |
| Zustand | Neuware |
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