Women in Relationships with Bisexual Men (eBook)

Bi Men By Women

Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli (Autor)

eBook Download: EPUB

2016
522 Seiten
Lexington Books (Verlag)
978-0-7391-3459-7 (ISBN)

Infos

This book is an intimate journey into the experiences and insights of 79 Australian women in relationships with bisexual men. The research, revelations, and reflections in this book tell us much about global constructions and understandings of intimate relationships, sexual desires, and love, and the socio-cultural representations and labeling of genders and sexualities.

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Framed by a comprehensive review of international research, literature, and film, this book is an intimate journey into the experiences and insights of 79 Australian women in relationships with bisexual men. It takes us into the daily lives, sexual intimacies, and families of MOREs (mixed-orientation relationships) that span the gamut from extremely oppressive experiences with bi-misogynist men to extremely liberating with bi-profeminist men. Aged 19 to 65, the women are in monogamous, open, and polyamorous relationships with bisexual-identifying and/or bisexual-behaving men. The women themselves are bisexual, lesbian, heterosexual, while others refuse to categorize their own sexualities. The book addresses the discovery or disclosure of the mans bisexuality, how the relationships work and where they flounder, how the partners negotiate and establish new rules and boundaries to maintain their relationship, and the impact of class, rural/urban setting, ethnicity, indigeneity, race, religion, and education on these relationships.But this book isn't only about MOREs. The research, revelations and reflections in this book tell us much about current and shifting global constructions and understandings of intimate relationships, sexual desires and love, and the socio-cultural representations and labeling of genders and sexualities.

Autor

Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli is senior lecturer in the School of Health and Social Development, Deakin University and a founding member of the Australian GLBTIQ Multicultural Council Inc. (AGMC).

Inhalt

Part One: IntroductionChapter One: “Outside Belonging”: An Introduction to the Women, their Men, and the ResearchChapter Two: “Border Women and Their Border Men”: Some Theories, Definitions, and Debates Framing the ResearchChapter Three: “You know, the old Kinsey scale”: Women Talk about their Partners’ BisexualitiesChapter Four: “I Have A Sexuality Too”: Women Discussing their Own SexualitiesPart Two: The JourneysChapter Five: “Starting Out Knowing”: Negotiating the Beginning of the RelationshipChapter Six: “Changing Course Midstream”: From Closet to ConfrontationChapter Seven: “We’ve Arrived Where We Started and Know the Place for the First Time”: Women Reflecting on ‘Staying the Course’ or ‘Splitting Up’Part Three: Mapping the LandscapeChapter Eight: “New Rules, No Rules, Old Rules or Our Rules”: Women Designing MOREs with their PartnersChapter Nine: “The Problem Is That He’s A Man, Not That He’s Bisexual”: Women Discussing Masculinity, Misogyny, Privilege, and PowerChapter Ten: “What Do We Tell The Kids?”: Women Talk about Bisexual FathersChapter Eleven: “Spreading Disease With the Greatest of Ease”: Negotiating Sexual Health IssuesPart Four: Borderdwelling as Outsiders BelongingChapter Twelve: “Minute by Minute Maneuvering”: Navigating the HeteroworldChapter Thirteen: “Ewww, girl germs”: Women’s Experiences and Perceptions of HomonormativityChapter 14: “The Priest Told Him to Marry Me and He’d Go Straight”: Bordering Religion and Spirituality in MOREsChapter Fifteen: “It’s A Matter of Family Honor and Shame”: Negotiating Ethnic Identity and Community CodesChapter Sixteen: “When Your Relationship Isn’t Recognized by Relationship Services”: Misrepresentations and Erasures in Health ServicesPart Five: Not Just Belonging but Blooming in the BorderlandsChapter Seventeen: “A door that hasn’t been opened”: Women’s Final Words for Future Women

Produkt-Details

• Erscheint lt. Verlag: 8.3.2016
• Sprache: englisch
• Themenwelt: Geisteswissenschaften ► Psychologie ► Sexualität / Partnerschaft
• Themenwelt: Sozialwissenschaften ► Soziologie ► Gender Studies
• Themenwelt: Sozialwissenschaften ► Soziologie ► Mikrosoziologie
• Schlagworte: Bisexuality • Gender Studies • Sociology of Gender • women's studies
• ISBN-10: 0-7391-3459-0 / 0739134590
• ISBN-13: 978-0-7391-3459-7 / 9780739134597